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"You don't act like everyone else does, therefor you do not have the rights everyone else does."
Basicly, that is the message that is comeing across.
Because you love someone that does not fit the profile of what is Normal, you cannot marry. And if you do marry, your marrage is invalid in the eyes of the law.
If you have a child with your partner in perfectly legal ways in one state and yourr partner takes the child and runs to another state where your union is not legel, that state will say you have no right to the child because you did not give birth to it. Never the mind that the person who too the child and ran violated a court order for custory in doing so.
California nulified marrages. In the name of saving marrage, they told over a thousand couples that they were no longer married.
Virgina is telling a woman that she has no rights to her child that she raised because her blood is not in that child and because her civil union is not recognized by that state. In Vermont, she has custory rights. In Virgina, she does not.
Because blood makes family.
Tell an adopted child that they are no longer part of the family that raised them because they share no blood with them. TEll someone who lives with a steppartent that has been there since they were born that the person they call mom is not their mother.
Because gays marrying destroys the family.
Bullshit.
The goverment is what's destorying marrage. What's distroying the family. What;s destorying love.
Becase the goverment is telling people that their love for another person is not valid.
Basicly, that is the message that is comeing across.
Because you love someone that does not fit the profile of what is Normal, you cannot marry. And if you do marry, your marrage is invalid in the eyes of the law.
If you have a child with your partner in perfectly legal ways in one state and yourr partner takes the child and runs to another state where your union is not legel, that state will say you have no right to the child because you did not give birth to it. Never the mind that the person who too the child and ran violated a court order for custory in doing so.
California nulified marrages. In the name of saving marrage, they told over a thousand couples that they were no longer married.
Virgina is telling a woman that she has no rights to her child that she raised because her blood is not in that child and because her civil union is not recognized by that state. In Vermont, she has custory rights. In Virgina, she does not.
Because blood makes family.
Tell an adopted child that they are no longer part of the family that raised them because they share no blood with them. TEll someone who lives with a steppartent that has been there since they were born that the person they call mom is not their mother.
Because gays marrying destroys the family.
Bullshit.
The goverment is what's destorying marrage. What's distroying the family. What;s destorying love.
Becase the goverment is telling people that their love for another person is not valid.